There is a quality to love that I believe all of us long for. It's one that goes beyond sex. The love we long for is a deep, unconditional love--to be loved for who we are.
To understand sex, we must understand its connection to love. To understand love, we must know where that love we long for comes from and how we can get it.
A deep longing to be fully known and yet fully accepted exists in all of us. In a relationship with God through Jesus Christ we can be fully known, yet fully accepted, no matter how bad we think we are.
Jesus is a person who knows all about you--your past, your present. And still he loves you. Believe it or not, he's interested in your sex life. Through him we can experience the deep love we long for and the forgiveness we need.
He created sex, not just for making babies, but for our enjoyment. And the reason he desires that we save sex for marriage is to provide for us the best sex life when we're married and to protect us from disease, unwanted pregnancy, and heartache from broken relationships.
Perhaps you are wondering how you can know this person Jesus Christ. To know someone is to have a relationship with that person. It only takes a moment to begin a relationship with Christ.
When I was young, I first realized my need for God. I didn't consider myself religious, nor do I now. But someone had told me about Jesus Christ in a way that made sense then, and still does today. I was told that I only needed to tell God that I needed him to forgive me of my sin and come into my life. To do this, I just needed to receive him and what he did for me by dying on the cross for my sin. That same relationship is available to you right now.
Anyone can have lousy sex. It's not that difficult. But, to tell you the truth, I do want you to have a great sex life. I believe the best sex I'll have is in a marriage relationship. But if you are genuinely interested in having a lousy sex life, follow my easy instructions and soon frustration, loneliness and heartache will be yours. Good luck.
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Greg Kriefall is a writer living in Orlando, Fla. Copyright WSN Press, Campus Crusade for Christ, Inc., 1997-2001 Used by permission of WSN Press and Campus Crusade for Christ. All rights reserved. WSN Press, Campus Crusade for Christ--2500, 100 Lake Hart Dr., Orlando, FL 32832 USA.
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