What's your sexual philosophy?

What does sex mean to you?

an irresistible act of passion

a physical expression of commitment and love

a component of a relationship - but not the whole thing

a way to feel better about myself for a while

You are in a serious relationship with someone and have not yet had sex. Would you be able to wait until that person is ready to take that step?

yes… relationships are built on mutual respect

it would be wrong to pressure them and I'd try not to

I'd probably end up pressuring them

no… call it off and look for someone who's ready

You are close friends with a person of the opposite sex. You find him/her very attractive. Would you risk losing your friendship by having a fling with him/her?

not a fling…but maybe a dating relationship

it would be a mistake, but… yes

no… I'd rather not deal with the hurt in the long-run

oh ya… especially if passion overtook us

The main things you look for in a boyfriend/girlfriend are:

personality, lifestyle compatibility and sexual attraction

sexual chemistry, popularity, fun

better than the last boyfriend/girlfriend

not picky, just looking for a good time

When a friend / partner asks you about your sexual history:

you're not proud of it, but tell the truth

you lie - tell them less than the truth

you honestly don't keep track

you tell them you're not a player that way

If you met a person over 18 years old who is a virgin, your first thought would be:

how can anyone do that?

good for them

wish I could've done that

that's pathetic

If you have children, what will you teach them about sex?

It's natural…can't be resisted.

Sexual experiences help you grow as a person.

Save sex until you are committed to someone.

They'll learn about it from friends, movies and magazines.

The main thing that keeps you from acting out most of your sexual impulses is:

Nothing

moral beliefs

regret about past experiences

fear of sexually transmitted diseases

Do you think God has anything to say about sex that would apply to life today?

Absolutely not.

I don't have a clue.

I don't know, but I'm open to it.

Yes, I think He does.

Your sexual / relationship philosophy is most like:

Everybody Loves Raymond (stable, long-term)

Sex in the City (spontaneous, passion-driven)

Ally McBeal (undirected, regretful)

Frasier (in process, analyzing)

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