Valentine's Day. It's a day referred to by some singles as "V-Day." Even the happiest single person can find this day of hearts and flowers to be overwhelming with the bombardment of reminders that they have not a significant other.
I am not bitter. I am actually fairly certain I will get a rose this year. I almost always end up with chocolates. Usually they are from my brother or my father, but that doesn't bother me. I'm single by choice, not by default.
This year, I plan on being my own Valentine. I might catch a movie with my two single sisters. Heck, I might even buy myself a rose. While I am at it, I will probably buy a rose for each of them.
Valentine's Day is supposed to be for the ones you love, but who says you have to be "lovers" to love someone. What is stopping you from reminding your mother she is special, or telling your best friend that you value her? Is there a reason you cannot send your brother a card?
When I was in grade school, everyone gave everyone little pink valentine cards. It was fun, and everyone left feeling special. Why don't we do that anymore? Why are our likes reserved only for a significant other?
It's not childish to tell someone they matter. It's fun, and you would be amazed at the smile it will put on someone's face when they find out you care.
Hannah is a recent business graduate from McMaster University in Ontario, Canada. She is currently a secretary for the Department of History, and enjoys writing in her free time.
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